From My personal experience in my life, when a long-term relationship ends, there is usually a significant reason behind it. When I was in college, I was in a relationship with a girl for about 3 years. But being a child of a middle-class family, I used to support my education and work a small job. I used to leave my village house and rent a bachelor room in the city. At that time, I liked a girl very much and then fell in love with her. We loved each other deeply. However, it was very difficult for me to continue the relationship because I was working a job that only covered my own expenses. Nonetheless, I forgot everything and gave time to that girl, loving her. I used to visit her every day from college, neglecting my work. Sometimes, my office boss would tell me to go somewhere, and I would silently comply, sacrificing my time for the girl. I used to spend the money I earned on her, but I couldn’t give much time to my family, which was a big mistake in my life. I was blinded by love and forgot everything about my family. However, the person on the other side was so infatuated with me that I thought she loved me so much, she would sacrifice everything for me. With this thought, I gave her more space in my mind, and our relationship grew deeper day by day.
But even though I tried to give her everything, she might not have been satisfied with my efforts. I couldn’t buy her the things she liked or give her much time. Despite this, the relationship seemed fine. However, at one point, the girl started ignoring me and picking fights with me on various pretexts, which led to our breakup. It almost went on like this. But I wanted to follow the girl’s words to keep the relationship right. I knew that the girl was leaving because of me. At some point, I found out that the girl had better options than me and was looking for various excuses to leave me. Hearing this, I suffered a lot and fell into depression. Then I tried hard to explain to the girl, but she had fallen in love with someone else, which I could never imagine. Nonetheless, I tried everything to fix things with the girl, but she remained indifferent. Sometimes, I felt frustrated. Then, with no contact, I found it hard to cope. A few days ago, a stranger called me and said that he had a relationship with the same girl I was in a relationship with, and the same thing happened to him. I was shocked to hear that. Hey, hey, I was speechless. Then I didn’t believe it, but the boy showed me pictures and videos of different moments spent with her, and then I believed. Really, on the one hand, the girl left me, and on the other hand, she had another previous relationship. She didn’t tell me that either. How can I bear all this? Then I slowly tried to convince myself that it was one of the best experiences of my life from which I learned a lot. After a long-term relationship, being alone teaches people to cope with loneliness. Although it may be difficult at first, over time, things improve as the bitterness dissipates, allowing one to start anew.
The latest situation will make you forget. If you are mature enough, everything will be easy for you. Regardless of the situation, you must accept the fact that the person you loved so much has betrayed you. You can’t accept it. This is because the person you loved so much has betrayed your trust, and you cannot accept everything. If you are not strong personally, you cannot be alone after a long relationship. You must be very busy with your life. But love comes in every life. These are life experiences. Learn from them and move forward. I will not waste my life for someone else. Will always remember. It is true that mutual respect is very important in a relationship, but there is no need to worry about relationships that lead to other relationships. So spend time with your family and focus on your goals to make life beautiful.
How I learned to be alone:
Keeping distance from bad situations.
Setting goals and starting to work towards them.
Always maintaining a positive attitude.
Spending time at home.
Exercising every day.
Spending time with close friends.
Trying to keep myself entertained.
Going for walks outside.
Always try to keep myself organized and happy.
Finally, learn to love yourself, focus on improving yourself, and life will be beautiful. Being alone will be the best option for you, as I said from my personal experience. Today, I am very well and very happy.
