Hi! I’m sharing some personal experiences that I have never had in my life. Life is so beautiful, so we must understand how to lead an enjoyable life. However, most people can’t lead a luxurious life because of their middle-class status in our society. Everyone’s life is different. Everyone wants to do everything, but they can’t due to a lack of ability or necessary support. There are different types of people living in this world, each with its own complexities. Everyone wants to enjoy a happy life. Finally, I haven’t been able to do ten things that I will share with you below because my family belongs to the middle class.
I have never celebrated my birthday.
Since childhood, I have never celebrated my birthday; it’s true. But why? I haven’t had a better environment, and I haven’t been financially capable. To be honest, I am from a middle-class family, and my parents can’t afford to celebrate my birthday. Eventually, I didn’t have a good environmental situation, and at that time, I lived in a village. My village is very small and inexpensive, so we didn’t have access to a professional environment or good things. That’s why I don’t want to know how to celebrate the birthday.
I have never said ‘I love you’ to my parents.
I have never said ‘I love you’ to my parents. One of the reasons is that I feel ashamed, and I don’t know why. But really, deep down in my mind, I love my parents a lot. However, I’ve never directly said ‘I love you’ so much. So, I am just trying to break my shame and tell them. I am sure I am just trying, and of course, I am saying it to them. Lastly, I highly suggest loving your parents with all your heart and soul because in our lives, parents are everything. They are the best people in my life. I love my parents so much.
I have never experienced a luxurious lifestyle.
I am not strongly financially capable, yet I am consistently trying to change my lifestyle because I want to lead a luxurious lifestyle. So now I am not financially capable, that’s why I have never experienced a luxurious lifestyle. However, I am putting in hard efforts in my career so that I can quickly change my life, and I am damn sure I can do it very soon. When I am financially capable, at that time, I want to lead a luxurious lifestyle. But I am living in a volatile environment, and I didn’t get a luxurious environment that I can’t learn from. But it is really bad luck for my life that I don’t get a professional situation that I can use to improve my lifestyle. So now I understand what life is, and I am constantly trying to change my life. And finally, I hope I will be successful one day, catch my dreams, and achieve a luxurious lifestyle.
I have never traveled anywhere.
I wanted to travel a lot in my life, but I didn’t travel. I have many sights in Bangladesh which I have never visited. Life is not the same for everyone, and not everything can be fulfilled even if you want it. Some things have to be accepted according to the situation. I had such a bad situation that I could never do anything even if I wanted to, but I am constantly trying to make big changes in life. So that I can keep my family and me well and fulfill their wishes. If I am successful, I can travel a lot in life. Now it’s time to build a career, so if you build a career, everything will be automatic. But I will travel a lot then, not after success; success first.
I have never socialized with a large group of friends.
I have never had a best friend or a big circle of friends, and even now, I have no close friends; just some acquaintances with whom I exchange casual greetings. I don’t have any specific friend group within our society. When I was a college student, I made many friends, but I never socialized with them. At one point, I realized I needed to focus on my career because I come from a middle-class family. I didn’t desire everything and didn’t socialize with other rich friends because they belonged to a higher society, and I felt similar to them, so I had to maintain a balance in friendships without really socializing. Overall, I am focused on my career, and I want to change my life and the lives of my family. I dedicate my full time to work, study, skill development, and other pursuits, so I never prioritize friendships. Even though the situation with friends has been slow, I am still working hard and striving to improve my lifestyle. That’s all.
I have never smoked a single cigarette.
I never do this because I don’t like it, and to be honest, when I was a child, I made a promise to my mother that I would never smoke a single cigarette or use drugs, etc. It’s really my commitment to my life, and I feel it’s a great commitment that I made to my mother. Right now, my mother proudly says, ‘My child does not smoke; he’s a big boy.’ Yes, it’s my pleasure to hear that.
I have never hurt anyone.
Of course, it’s true that I have never hurt anyone. I love everyone, especially those from poor or middle-class families. I find that those belonging to such families like and love me very much. My hope is that when I become established and financially capable, I will definitely give something to poor families. In my life, there are no hurtful words. I want to emphasize that I never play with anyone’s feelings. My family has always taught me not to hurt people, and if I ever do hurt someone, I understand that I would have to endure that pain myself. Therefore, I have learned to love people. It’s not right to break someone’s heart, and if someone hurts you, it’s important to share that pain. Eventually, everyone will understand this. So, I believe it’s crucial not to hurt anyone in life. By doing so, you’ll live a much happier and obstacle-free life.
I have never used an iPhone.
I’ve never used an iPhone in my life until now. It’s too expensive, which is why I can’t afford it. But I’m sure that I’ll definitely use one when I become successful. At that time, I’ll also lead a luxurious lifestyle.
I never read the bye of the Story Books
Where I have learned to understand and grow up is when I have time to read a story. Busy with career and family pressures, I have to work.
I Have never stopped learning
When I grew up and understood what life is about, I began constantly trying to learn and develop my skills. Truly, I devote most of my time to learning and skill development because doing the right things is crucial for success in my career. I know very well that continuous learning is essential to change my future, and the process of learning along the way exponentially grows my life. That’s why I’m still focused on my career and life, as it’s time to build up my career. Yet every day, I am learning and developing.
